That flash of irritation when they pick up the phone again. The rage when they ignore you. The hurt when they say something cruel. The helplessness when nothing seems to work.
These feelings aren't failures. They're data.
Your emotions are pointing directly at what your child actually needs — even when their behavior looks like pure defiance.
This 2-minute quiz helps you decode the signal.
Answer a few questions about a recent screen conflict. You'll discover which of the four hidden needs is driving your child's behavior right now — and get a free guide with specific scripts for exactly that situation.
While You're Here
Free tools to get started. Includes free action guide based on your result.
Parent Battery Check
How empty is your tank right now? 6 moments. 2 minutes. Find out if you're running on fumes.
The Compass is just the beginning. The full book goes deeper — with action guides for each need type, scripts for when you're too exhausted to think, and the long-term strategies that actually stick.